Gold Medalists: Dead Bodies are Trophies


Have those days gone when the nature and activities of a man were judged on the basis of his educational qualification? The revelation of the terrorist groups including toppers in psychology and economics proves this. Whom to blame? Was it the mistake of education or the man who didn’t deserve the education? Investigations have also shown that these terrorists not only felt proud in counting the number of dead from their bombs but also ridiculed their fellows if their bombs defused. They loved to proclaim themselves as MOST WANTED. If a person is wrong, people blame his background but here, this is also mistaken as the whole family seems to be very educated and holding respectable positions in the administration. The most astonishing fact is that the terrorist who loved to plant bombs and kill people is also an IAS aspirant, the highest administrative job of India. If he hadn’t been caught, maybe he could have become an IAS officer holding the administration in his hands. What kind of mindset is this? Is living in a nation, using its resources to achieve the highest positions and then killing its very own citizens fair? Government can imply police forces to save its people but can’t brainwash a suicide bomber to avoid such killings. Education remains the same but some fed by it take heavenly stature while others become demons.

Some blame riots for such mindsets but before anything else, a person himself should be blamed. Killing innocents to satisfy one’s ego is not justified in any sense. If such people are really hurt by riots, then why don’t they spend the time and energy which they use for killing innocents to search those who cause the riots? I would request these heartless people to ask the dead souls of their loved ones if they would ever feel happy about the survivors for killing others in the same way as they themselves had lost their lives.Image

If not afraid of anyone else, at least be afraid of the God before the thought of killing others and devastating this beautiful earth. If you can’t add to the beauty then who are you to bring the destruction? By doing all this, you may satisfy your missions and fill your pockets but always keep in mind the Day of Judgment on which none is forgiven.

Save Yourself From Baldness, Naturally


Hair loss has become one of the major problems among the people through out the world. It doesn’t seem surprising to see a 10 year old child going bald these days. Not one but many factors can be blamed for the distressing situation. And two prominent among all can be the heightened stress factor in the modern life and the invisible pollutants in the environment in which we lead our lives. There are thousands of products available in the market but very less has proven effective and that too for a selected group of people. Here, you can see some natural tips which can be followed not only to reduce hair loss but can be used on a daily basis to refrain forever from such issues in your lives.

 

According to the experts, massage always helps as it not only improves the circulation of blood but also trickles the hair follicles which leads to the better growth of hair. Nowadays, for those who can’t manage to do it on their own can also go for various electrical massages available in the market. For a relaxing and completely effective hair massage, it requires a mixture of six drops of lavender oil, six drops of baby essential oil and four ounces of almond oil. Sit with closed eyes in a relaxed posture for twenty minutes after the massage. It would give a very soothing effect. After this, you can take a head bath which would certainly give you a refreshing lighter feeling as something has fallen from your head

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Other than this, try to use a special massaging hair brush that stimulates the scalp to promote hair growth. A natural shampoo replete with organic herbal extracts specifically recommended for hair loss should be used. If not anything else, coconut oil is always good for the growth of hair which also makes it long, black and beautiful.

Dandruff always increases the hair loss so, for that a mixture of aloe Vera, henna and curd can be made which not only gives relief from dandruff but also helps in the conditioning of hair thus making the hair less brittle and prone to fall.

 

A Living Relationship or a Dead Relationship


A few days back, I met a friend who had been living with his girlfriend for the last five years without marriage. It’s a very common thing now a day and you would be really surprised if anyone shows one’s astonishment over these things. But, one question remains. Was this common 20 years back? We all know that it was not. So, what is that cause which has brought such drastic change in the entire set up of the society? Is it being more technological which has led to this effect? The answer would be and should a big no. then, is the wave of modernization responsible for this change? I know many would nod their heads in the positive direction. But, again it would be denied from my side. Dear friends, if we call this the result of being modernized then the word “modernization” itself have been taken in a wrong sense. In my opinion, modernization is the development of thoughts in a positive direction rather than shedding of morals and values.

 Without deviating from our main topic, let’s come back to the topic of living relationships. Accumulating the results of the thoughts from all directions, the central point blames the society itself which is formed of none other than us. Sometimes, it’s the pressure of the society and the family of a person which forces him to reach the peak before getting into a bond. And that’s very good for the future support. But, what about the ability of the person himself? Is he capable of maintaining his chastity till marriage or trying to exploit others for enjoyment and the privilege of being single? Some drives become so dominating that the emotions and even the precious bonds of the life seem a time pass. So, the first point which comes out is the lack of marriage at the proper age which leads to such an outcome. Girls need a kind of security and

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                                                                                                  the boys urge for the  and in order to meet these needs, they move to take such decisions in their lives. Many people reading this article may not agree with me as the above reason may not stand true for them.

So, the other reason may be the fear of breakage. Many a times, people having already suffered in such bonds don’t feel interested in marriage as it becomes a social symbol with a long process and much other legality whereas the living relationships can be broken at any point of time without such issues. Although now a days government of many countries have started to stand in favor of long living relationships or domestic partners but the problem still persists. So, the primary reason which comes out of this discussion is the lack of commitment, the disrespect of social bonds and the lack of tolerance in relationships. And yes, that’s the answer. The young man whom I referred in the beginning may not have guts to marry and get into a social bond but can continue to live in such a relationship as it fulfills his goals with every kind of freedom. If it’s not true, then why doesn’t he marry? I know the reason as he is my friend and he also agrees with that as he has many friends living in living but dead relationships for the same reason. Yes, I agree that sometimes, when man wants to marry the woman may not be interested and if the woman shows interest then the man may not give green signal. But, is living relationship the solution of this issue? Many minute things for us but of mountainous size for the couple are also there such as the fuss involved in divorces, legalities related to the rights on children and other insurance related questions which refrains the couple from doing so.

To rule over one’s emotions and feelings and to love someone is the greatest achievement of one’s life. A person may fail once, twice or may be thrice but not throughout his life. So, please move ahead and give a social name and respect to your relationship and get into a bond which the God would also admire. Think about the future and the children born out of such relationships. What would be their fault? Why should they suffer for the lack of commitment of their parents? So, friends, come out of the fear and become committed in your lives and for living a better life. Give your life a new direction and let your love live to the utmost with the highest respect in front of the whole world.

 

Think Twice Before You Commit Suicide


There can be thousands of reasons which a person can give for committing suicide. And the traumatic situation through which a person undergoes can’t ever be understood by the other person. People visit psychologists for consultancies. And then also the mind remains contemplating on the aspects of suicide. Can you think of the mother of all the reasons which forces a person to commit suicide? Yes, and that’s also a common human tendency. Every human being wants to have an easy solution for every depressing situation and if he remains unable to get rid of the situation, he tries to get rid of his life.Image

If we think of the simple reasons for not committing suicide then the simplest is that it’s a crime. And becoming a little mythological, we can say that life is beautiful and given by god only once. But, do these reasons stop a person from committing suicide? No. why? Because neither life seems beautiful to him nor it seems as a gift by the almighty.

But, there exists a practical and logical reason which should be given to all such thinkers in order to refrain them from taking their lives. A simple question. Have you seen life after death? What will you do if it comes out to be more disastrous than this one? Will you be able to come back in this life? You are at least aware about this life, its people and your situations but there are no clues about the cold cave in which you dare to enter.

If this logical reason doesn’t satisfy you, then do an experiment. Live with an old man above 60 for some days. You will realize that he always tries to get up early in the morning and sleep early at night.

There is a reason behind it. By this time he has understood the importance of life either good or bad. Slowly and gradually he becomes aware of the passing time and his approaching death which will separate him from this beautiful life. That’s why he tries to live every day as complete as possible. So, this is my request to all those people who think of committing suicide to think twice preparing yourself to mix the beautiful body in the dust on which you walk. Suicide presents only our cowardice and inability to face the tests of the almighty and completion of it facing all the troubles successfully makes you a human being in true sense

Honor Killings- The Murder of Love


Love, the most pure feeling of the universe, is always considered to give happiness in a human being’s life. Not only humans, it is believed to be the central force of this universe because of which the living beings exist. It is a medicine which can drag a person from the verge of death and give him the hope of leading a blissful life. 

 

ImageIt’s so difficult to accept the killings due to love increasing day by day. Yes, it sounds ironic but the reason stands true if we dissect the situations. These murders are named as honor killings as to prevent the honors of the families. An honorable feeling is blamed for honor killings; it is so disgusting in itself. Couples marrying each other for the sake of love are strangled in the name of caste and community. It shows that caste is higher than love and even much higher than the love of the blood relation. Yes, the revenge is taken from one’s own daughter, sister or son. The mother who gives birth to the child strangles her if she dares to choose a man of her choice. Is this protection of honor or the revelation of the animal instincts hidden inside those demons?

Leaving everything aside, the matter of discussion is the benefit if any of the parties achieve through this. The couple leaves forever, the parents lose their child and the incident only encourages more such occurrences in the society.  How we can forget that the things hidden or restricted always create curiosity and violations. The need is to understand the changes in the society and make the young generation understand with love rather than by killing their love partners.

 

Marry The One Who Loves You, Not The One Whom You Love


Love is called as the other name of sacrifice but, to some extent the expectations are always attached to it. Sometimes, we miss the true love of our life and choose the artificial cover of emotions which is hollow from inside. Trust me, there is no way to return after you cross one phase of life and the only thing which hovers till the end is the regret. The worst part is that worse than the worst comes out even if you try to go back as the situations completely change by then.

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I know the scene described is really hard to imagine before it is experienced but once it falls upon someone, the whole life is ruined. The institution of marriage has lost the importance in the present era but, still at some point of your life you choose someone to settle down.

Experienced people always make a statement of million dollars when they say ‘Marry the one who loves you, not the one whom you love’.  It does not mean that the person whom you love does not love and the other way round but, a dominating side is always there. If we think logically, this statement proves very true in the long run. If you marry the person whom you love, your expectations dominate and in the other way, the other’s feelings dominate. It pinches a lot when the person whom you love hurts you and the personxtent that it makes your whole life blind.

 

Abortion After 20 Weeks?


The recent case of Nikita Mehta trickled the thoughts of all the women of the world. And not only women, but everyone related to them. Nikita Mehta, a lady pregnant with 25 weeks, knows that the baby can be paralyzed and doctors have indicated about a whole in baby’s heart. But, the Indian law doesn’t allow an abortion after 20 weeks. As after 20 weeks, the main parts of the body are grown and in their shapes so, it is also considered cruel by the society as well. Nikita Mehta and her husband approached the court to seek the permission for abortion but the plea was denied as the court showed its inability in amending laws as it’s work is only to pass orders. If this order had been passed, it would have brought a drastic change in the legal system as well as in the world of medical history.

Now is the time to think. If we contemplate on this issue deeply, we remain unable to blame anyone for being at fault. If we see the law, then it is correct as many people having no such serious issues can approach for the same. If we see the society, then the increasing rate of living relationships and increasing conflicts in married relationships as well can result in the same. And at last, if we see the depressed couple’s face ( Nikita and Haresh) then, they also don’t seem to be defaulters. Which mother of the world would like to have a paralyzed baby with a hole in his heart? And even if Nikita delivers the baby, who will be the ultimate sufferer? Not only Nikita and Haresh, but the baby will also become the center of this traumatic situation throughout his life. Neither the parents would be able to love the disability of their child nor would they be able to hate the same. How the baby would feel that even after being aware of all the facts he was brought into the world.

So, what’s the solution of this situation? This situation can fall on anyone. Today, the law was not changed as Nikita was the lonely figure to approach the court and fight against such laws but many more may have suffered the same situation in the past and many others can Imagesuffer in the future as well. But, a common approach will not help in this case as it fist goes in the wrong hands not eligible for that. So, the society, government and the law makers should keep in consideration all the fact and allow exceptions in such situations. In this way, neither the law would create any conflict nor there be any fear of going in the wrong hands.

 

Love And Sex, Are These Related?


Are you sexually exploited on a daily basis? You can’t deny as he has the right to sex according to the marital bond and even if you have the right to deny, how much are you able to actually use that? It’s such an irony that sexual fulfillment from both the sides does not assure of a happy married life. Heard by many and also experienced by some, most people believe in this and get confused when the circumstances faced are entirely different. So, is it right to say that a happy sex life signifies a happy married life?  A woman bows down in front of the urges of the man as he can promise for anything to get his desire fulfilled but the behavior in the later part of the day forces her to hate herself and tries to find the reason for her permission everyday.

 A woman is emotionally weaker and tries to find the love in  the physical relation with her man; however, she fails to distinguish the act of mere satisfaction from that of real love. Yes, it is very hard to know the difference but if pondered over a little, it is an easy task. Does he always show the same doting behavior or he displays a drastic change in his behavior in general? After getting the answer, and if is a big yes then we are left with nothing but a bitter feeling of helplessness. This is not a case of being educated or not, but a need to strengthen our emotional stature which becomes the weakness of a woman. ThImagee depiction of false love for the fulfillment of one’s desires is also a kind of exploitation. It not only exploits us but the realization of the truth also tortures us. It’s better to understand the truth of your love today rather than going under the knife everyday.

 

Use Glycolic Acid to Get Rid of Wrinkles


With age, our skin starts getting wrinkled as it becomes thinner and loses its elasticity with the passage of time. Mostly, wrinkles first appear around the eyes and mouth.

Best and Effective Cure

There are various treatments available in the market for reducing wrinkles or getting rid of them but, glycolic acid has always proved to be the most effective cure provided by any other Alpha-Hydroxy-Acids or AHA.

Natural Exfoliator

It’s an active agent which acts as a natural exfoliator which penetrates through the cell walls of the skin due to comparatively smaller size of its molecules.

Plumps up the Cells

After entering inside the cell, it helps in producing collagen and activates the synthesis of dermal glycosaminoglycans which plumps up the cell. This whole process helps the ground substances in the skin to reduce wrinkles on the skin’s surface.

Removes Dead Cells

It’s very beneficial for removing dead skin cells and thus leading to the growth of new young skin cells. This acid targets the main reason behind the formation of wrinkles which mainly occurs as the cells get less plump with growing age. So, by helping in the growth of new young cells, it replaces the old ones.

Softens the Appearance of Laugh lines and Crow’s Feet

Use of glycolic acid on a regular basis minimizes and softens the appearance of laugh lines, crow’s feet and wrinkle in other areas of the body. The constituents of this acid obstruct the formation of wrinkles by plumping up the cells of the skin.

Apart from this, regular usage of glycolic acid also reduces the appearance of dark spots on the skin to a great extent. With time, the application of glycolic acid on the affected areas evens out the skin and eliminates the dark spots completely.

Glycolic acid can do wonders if used for the exfoliation of the skin. By scrubbing away the dead and dull surface of the skin, it gives a new fresh look to the skin by brightening up the complexion as well as adding glow to it.

Ensures Complete Absorption of Moisturizers in the Skin

Most of the people with wrinkled skin use a variety of moisturizers to keep their skin soft and supple to reduce the formation of wrinkles however, there’s no affect on the skin of such products till those are completely absorbed in the skin. So, for ensuring the proper absorption of such products, glycolic acid should be used which enhances the absorption of moisturizers to a large extent making the skin look younger and smoother.

Promotes Blood Circulation

Blood circulation plays an important role in maintaining a good skin texture and keeping the skin young and glowing. For imparting a proper blood circulation in the body, glycolic acid can be used which helps in providing a better texture and elasticity to the skin by promoting circulation.

So, glycolic acid is a proven anti-wrinkle agent which not only removes the wrinkles but also adds glow to the skin by making it look younger, smoother, more supple and fresh. The best part is that it not only acts on the surface but treats from inside by increasing the suppleness of the cells and improving the blood circulation.With age, our skin starts getting wrinkled as it becomes thinner and loses its elasticity with the passage of time. Mostly, wrinkles first appear around the eyes and mouth.

Best and Effective Cure

There are various treatments available in the market for reducing wrinkles or getting rid of them but, glycolic acid has always proved to be the most effective cure provided by any other Alpha-Hydroxy-Acids or AHA.

Natural Exfoliator

It’s an active agent which acts as a natural exfoliator which penetrates through the cell walls of the skin due to comparatively smaller size of its molecules.

Plumps up the Cells

After entering inside the cell, it helps in producing collagen and activates the synthesis of dermal glycosaminoglycans which plumps up the cell. This whole process helps the ground substances in the skin to reduce wrinkles on the skin’s surface.

Removes Dead Cells

It’s very beneficial for removing dead skin cells and thus leading to the growth of new young skin cells. This acid targets the main reason behind the formation of wrinkles which mainly occurs as the cells get less plump with growing age. So, by helping in the growth of new young cells, it replaces the old ones.

Softens the Appearance of Laugh lines and Crow’s Feet

Use of glycolic acid on a regular basis minimizes and softens the appearance of laugh lines, crow’s feet and wrinkle in other areas of the body. The constituents of this acid obstruct the formation of wrinkles by plumping up the cells of the skin.

Apart from this, regular usage of glycolic acid also reduces the appearance of dark spots on the skin to a great extent. With time, the application of glycolic acid on the affected areas evens out the skin and eliminates the dark spots completely.

Glycolic acid can do wonders if used for the exfoliation of the skin. By scrubbing away the dead and dull surface of the skin, it gives a new fresh look to the skin by brightening up the complexion as well as adding glow to it.

Ensures Complete Absorption of Moisturizers in the Skin

Most of the people with wrinkled skin use a variety of moisturizers to keep their skin soft and supple to reduce the formation of wrinkles however, there’s no affect on the skin of such products till those are completely absorbed in the skin. So, for ensuring the proper absorption of such products, glycolic acid should be used which enhances the absorption of moisturizers to a large extent making the skin look younger and smoother.

Promotes Blood Circulation

Blood circulation plays an important role in maintaining a good skin texture and keeping the skin young and glowing. For imparting a proper blood circulation in the body, glycolic acid can be used which helps in providing a better texture and elasticity to the skin by promoting circulation.

So, glycolic acid is a proven anti-wrinkle agent which not only removes the wrinkles but also adds glow to the skin by making it look younger, smoother, more supple and fresh. The best part is that it not only acts on the surface but treats from inside by increasing the suppleness of the cells and improving the blood circulation.With age, our skin starts getting wrinkled as it becomes thinner and loses its elasticity with the passage of time. Mostly, wrinkles first appear around the eyes and mouth.